Hello Party People,
I received a voice message a number of days ago that went like this:

“Hello Patricia. My name is … I found your video on You Tube Ann Sieg The Renegade Network Marketer-Is-My-Friend-Coach & Mentor!

I also saw you were featured on The Renegade Network Marketer Website. I am getting ready to order the Renegade Marketing System BUT I’m SOOOO tired of buying things to get the help I desperately need only to be disappointed.

So I before I dig into my pockets and shell out ONE MORE TIME for some expert’s advise I just had to speak to someone, to make sure that this is the right thing for me to do! I would like to speak with you by phone for a few minutes if at all possible. Thank you for time and I look forward to speaking with you.

S. Samaniego

Now as an Internet Marketing Coach and Consultant, I get many messages that sound like this one. I have learned over time to decipher the message and determine which one is worth my while to respond to and which ones I had better leave alone. I chose to leave this one alone!

And here’s my answer:

It is funny how some people are always, “getting scammed, getting taken”, by someone else.

OUT-PUT DETERMINES IN-PUT. Out flow determines In flow (catch my drift!)

I know a little of fear, trepidation, uncertainty! I know this because I have made some BAD business decisions, lost money (and sometimes money that I didn’t even have!) What I find works best is a little thing called accountability! I always take personal responsibility for my actions, decisions, and the results be they positive or negative.

Nothing comes from nothing, nothing ever could. – Maria, Sound of Music

Disappointment is life. Outlook is a choice! I am very grateful for the choices that I made, I am grateful for many and still working on gratitude for others!

If I found that I purchased a training product that I felt I didn’t get value from, all I knew was that it wasn’t the product, but my lack of self acceptance. You see deep down we all know the course of action we must pursue. Question is are you going to follow your bliss or are going to spend your time looking for someone to blame a.k.a I got scammed, the training is useless!

Why did I choose not to respond?

He was getting ready to buy the course. You see some people are ever searching for the truth and never coming to a knowledge of it! Always looking for the magic bullet or book or course to save them, to save their lives, to make them millions! There is no cure all, there are only stepping stones (remember my post on baby steps?)

Each stride is designed to get you one step closer to your over arching goal!
Know this, success does not happen overnight, but one night success does happen!

FINANCIAL SUCCESS IS NOT AN EVENT, IT IS A SKILL!

To succeed in your home party plan business, you need to “ change your attitude a bit when it comes to this journey. You’ve got to pay the price, and having the opportunity to “buy” lessons learned from those who came before you should be viewed as a privilege and not a burden or an expense.” – Mike Dillard

So Mr S. I’m sorry. I perceived no need for us to speak. Take a leap of faith, thank your lucky stars for those who willingly share their lessons learned, and to LEARN to expect value because you will always get what you expect and think about in life. If you find the book was of no value, be sure to take advantage of the MONEY BACK GUARANTEE!

As for me I am off to find something on the Internet to add to my value, so I can continue to give value!

All my best,
Party Plan Pat

P.S. I encourage you to pick up a copy of “Party Secrets Revealed!”

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